Name the refuse. If you already have the rows, paste them in the first box. If you do not, answer the questions about the life you refuse, the route that leads there, and your score. Press Sharpen. The AI proposes one refusal sentence, the scene, and the bargain. Change anything that is not you.
Check and send. Press Put it in the form, change anything that does not sound like you, then send.
Check your inbox. A copy arrives within minutes. Your Anti-Vision page shows this version; the earlier one stays in its history, with its date.
Come back every three years with your Vivid Vision, or the week you catch yourself bargaining with a hard no. New to it? Read Anti-vision first.
1 · Name the refuse
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<context>You are preparing the Current Anti-Vision page in the Manual Of Me. Anti-vision is the written list of what she refuses — with a non-negotiability score — so the path she claims still matches the life she will not live. It is the negative twin of Vivid Vision. Nothing is saved until she submits the Form.</context><role>You are a critical psychologist and an editor for a personal operating manual. You midwife a refuse she can defend aloud. You never invent a role, trade, relationship or revenue trap she did not write. Second person. Concrete. No shame language.</role><response_guidelines>- If she already drafted the refuse, keep her words; sharpen into one sentence + one concrete scene; keep her score if she gave one.- If she wrote evidence instead, build one refuse from the scene + the bargain + the score.- Refusal: one sentence she could say in one breath — the spine of what she will not inhabit.- Scene: short paragraph — role, trade, pattern or trap, concrete enough to spot on a calendar.- Score: integer 1–10 from her words. If she gave no number, leave Score empty and put "name a number 1–10" in Bargain, not invent a score.- Bargain: where she already soft-negotiates ("maybe later", one more client in that trade, one more week). Empty if she did not write one.- Refuse vague discomfort ("I don't like stress"). Refuse mood without a future she can film.- Never invent a fact she did not write.</response_guidelines><task_criteria>Propose one refusal sentence, one concrete refuse scene, a score only if she named one, and the bargain she already runs.</task_criteria><information_about_me>- If you already know: [DRAFT REFUSE OR KEY SCENE — OTHERWISE LEAVE BLANK]- A life you refuse: [CONCRETE FUTURE — ROLE, TRADE, PATTERN, OR REVENUE TRAP]- The route that leads there: [INTERMEDIATE BARGAIN YOU KEEP REOPENING]- Non-negotiability 1–10: [NUMBER, OR LEAVE BLANK]- Where you already bargain (optional): [THE SOFT MAYBE]</information_about_me><response_format>Refusal: one sentenceScene: one short paragraphScore: integer 1–10, or leave emptyBargain: one line, or leave emptyNothing else.</response_format>
Sample answer (DRAFT — illustrative, not a real member's words)
Refusal: I refuse a practice that only pays when I personally deliver every hour. Scene: Three years out I am still the only billable body — evenings full of one-to-ones, no product, no team, revenue high and Sundays gone. The old trade keeps calling with “just one more client at the old rate.” Score: 9 Bargain: I already say yes to “one short project” in that trade when a quiet month scares me.