TL;DR
- Marie-Aude practises not engaging in meetings — new identity loop vs old “yes at the whiteboard” reflex.
- Reliability becomes a rescue list when the inner critic spikes — personal definition beats dictionary.
- Martine swaps autopilot sorry for pardon; wants a half-day of nos as deliberate practice.
- If you read only one segment first: 2026-05-22 — saying no to the fun project is the rep.
Segments
Hotel rooftop — Greece pivot and chat wins
Yann · Marie-Christine · Marie-Aude · Martine · Céline · 00:00–00:12
Yann atop the hotel (open terrace acoustics). Convinced family to extend trip Athens Sunday vs rushing home. Introduces chat capture for victories and commitments.
Zoom chat (folded)
- Aurélien Levrey (async): Victory — setting frame in pro relationships (choose with clarity vs being chosen). 1–3–5–10 year plan now feels useful for anchoring/manifestation.
- Céline Gossart: Engagement — by end of next week, own l'IA (appropriation, not more tools).
Try within 24–72h: Post one line in chat — victory or stake (English summary OK).
Disengage training — Marie-Aude
Marie-Aude · Yann · Marie-Christine · 00:10–00:13
Pattern: spontaneous yes to fun projects → overload. New rep: stay in the meeting without grabbing the ball (Tuesday work group — success). Yann frames levels of engagement and consequences; links to Wednesday reliability / “perfect response” identity.
Try within 24–72h: One meeting where you do not volunteer — log urge + outcome.
Reliability — rescue list when the critic fires
Marie-Christine · Yann · 00:56–00:59
Follow-on from Wednesday: each person defines reliability personally. When touriste inner voice says “you failed,” open list of domains where you are reliably you + anchor (gesture/music) to break projection loop.
Try within 24–72h: Draft five reliability receipts (times you showed up indisputably).
Sorry, pardon, and deliberate “no” days
Martine · Marie-Christine · Yann · 00:27–00:29
Martine: coaching arc from always yes (fear of being mean) → real no with pause (“let me think”). Works sorry → pardon consciously. Wants half-day say-no experiment (Christophe-style yes Wednesday inverse).
Try within 24–72h: Catch one sorry — rewrite as pardon or silence + boundary.
Céline — IA appropriation and Codex
Céline · Yann · 00:55–00:59
Aligns with chat commitment: structure l'IA into workflow (end of week). Yann: keep harvesting data for Codex; failures welcome.
Next session — engagements
Céline Gossart
- [ ] By end of week: l'IA appropriation — one workflow documented (what in / what out).
- [ ] Optional chat: victory line when it lands.
Marie-Christine Ecale
- [ ] Five reliability receipts + personal reliability definition (3 sentences).
- [ ] Link to enjeu work from 2026-05-20 — one stake still live.
Marie-Aude Delmotte
- [ ] Two meetings with no volunteer grab — log body cue + relief/cost.
- [ ] Polyvagal note: one calm install you repeated.
Martine Aubert
- [ ] Plan half-day say-no (safe container) — debrief data for Yann.
- [ ] Sorry → pardon catch (minimum one instance).
- [ ] Absent Monday (family day) — async chat OK.
Group (open for adoption)
- [ ] Build reliability rescue list (minimum five bullets).
Logistics
- [ ] Yann: Monday from Greece if connectivity holds.
- [ ] Fold Aurélien async chat into his dashboard (cadre victory) — not present live.